Dating a Military Man (pt 6)
Its about that time again, time to express my feelings about relationships with a military man. What better day than the last day of the month, of the last month of the year.
This month has probably been one of the worst ones yet. Last month was trying to figure out how to make things work while have a time difference and having a job with completely different schedules.This month was everything, all emotions, happening at once.
With the whole job situation it was hard to communicate with one another, and going days even weeks without talking to each other was torture. I kept feeling as though he didn’t WANT to try and make it work, when in reality that wasn’t the case, but it was just me being a girl.
Being a girl who is in love usually means that they are way more sensitive and sometimes more stubborn haha. Everyone had told me to say how I felt, they didn’t know that I already had and it didn’t make a difference. But you should ALWAYS say how you feel, in any way possible.
Communication is the key to any good and healthy relationship. Since we don’t have the greatest communication skills people would tell me to just end it. That I didn’t deserve a relationship like this. But they don’t understand that when you are truly IN LOVE nothing seems worth it to end it. I’m not going to lie i did think about that option but I’m glad I didn’t go through with it.
Breaking up over something stupid seems to cause more pain and is not at all worth it, to me that is. I thought about EVERYTHING and realized that I would rather go through this pain now for a few months than not go through it at all. I know things will get better, I may not know when but they will. He’s the only person that actually makes me happy, I go to bed thinking about him and wake up thinking about him. He is always on my mind. Going through a few months of pain is worth it in the end.
So don’t listen to other people, they may have your best interest in mind but it isn’t always the best advice. They may even had been in the same situation as you but it’s really not the same. Certain parts may seem similar but nobody ever goes through the exact same thing; the people are different, the emotions are different, the love is different. Be careful when taking advice, because in the end it’s YOUR relationship.
I’m sticking it out, knowing that it WILL get better. I don’t want to be with anybody else. I’m in love with him.
I hope you guys have an amazing New Year!!
